Thursday, January 8, 2009

I don't know what to do!

In 24 hours we have the opportunity to know the sex of our baby that is growing inside of me! While that's REALLY exciting... I'm starting to have second thoughts. I'm now not sure that I want to know the sex of the baby. Brandon has stated that he will support me either way. He can see the pros and cons of each. I will continue to think about it today and may decide by tomorrow. If I am still uncertain tomorrow, I will have the Ultrasound Tech record it in an envelope and place it in our file. Therefore, if/when I decide later that I want to know, they can share the information with us at that time.

I don't know what to do!

1 comment:

Nicole and Sanjay said...

I know it's a tough decision. The way we looked at is...you are going to find out the sex of the baby one way or another, it just may be a little sooner. It was just as special for us to find out we were having a boy during the ultrasound as it would have been at birth. Plus, we were in a sound frame of mind when we found out and it gave us a chance to really bond with the baby ahead of time and mentally prepare. It was also nice to know the gender so people could pray a little more specifically for the baby. Another benefit is that it is easier for people at your shower to purchase a gift for the baby. Lastly, it was a benefit to be able to have the nursery all ready and have the clothes washed and ready to go. You are a planner and I think you would really enjoy having everything in place before the little beanie arrives. That being said, you do what your heart is telling you to do. Only you and Brandon can make this decision.